What I look for in your grid

These jobs. Your life. Not a face to copy.

Example of the three jobs — faces covered on purpose. I’ll map your pictures onto the same jobs.

Example portrait. Face covered.
1 · Portrait
Example reply-bait photo. Face covered.
2 · They can comment
Example full-body photo. Face covered.
3 · Full body
Example candid walk. Face covered.
Extra · candid
Example well-dressed photo. Face covered.
Extra · you’d meet in this

1. Portrait

Clear face. Eyes visible. Relaxed, like you sat down at a table — not a passport grimace. This leads.

2. Something they can comment on

A real place or thing (a table, a walk, a hobby). That’s how they skip “hey.” Your life, not a borrowed one.

3. Full body

Clothes you’d wear meeting someone. So the face isn’t a floating head.

Then the words

Then you swipe like you have standards, and you ask people out in a handful of messages.

See the plan